Tuesday, May 21, 2013

Dear Coco, Please quit dropping F*** Bombs and using perverse humor....

He spoke this to me because I was dimming the light He set in me. My mouth had gotten in the way of helping others to see Him. Thanks for the conviction dear Spirit of Truth, I owe you eternity for it :)



A word from the Lord:


Dear Child of GodàGet Control of Your Mouth
But now you must put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and obscene talk from your mouth.

Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.

And he called the people to him and said to them, “Hear and understand: it is not what goes into the mouth that defiles a person, but what comes out of the mouth; this defiles a person.”

From the same mouth come blessing and cursing. My brothers, these things ought not to be so.

I tell you, on the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak, for by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.”

Let there be no filthiness nor foolish talk nor crude joking, which are out of place, but instead let there be thanksgiving.

And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.

But avoid irreverent babble, for it will lead people into more and more ungodliness
Whoever keeps his mouth and his tongue keeps himself out of trouble.

Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight, O Lord, my rock and my redeemer.

Let what you say be simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’; anything more than this comes from evil.

Does a spring pour forth from the same opening both fresh and salt water? Can a fig tree, my brothers, bear olives, or a grapevine produce figs? Neither can a salt pond yield fresh water. Who is wise and understanding among you? By his good conduct let him show his works in the meekness of wisdom.


Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.

The good person out of the good treasure of his heart produces good, and the evil person out of his evil treasure produces evil, for out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks.

Put away from you crooked speech and put devious talk far from you

Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.



Let no one despise you for your youth, but set the believers an example in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity.

No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.

A worthless person, a wicked man, goes about with crooked speech,

If anyone thinks he is religious and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his heart, this person's religion is worthless.



The mouth of the righteous brings forth wisdom, but the perverse tongue will be cut off. The lips of the righteous know what is acceptable, but the mouth of the wicked, what is perverse.

Set a guard, O Lord, over my mouth; keep watch over the door of my lips!

Keep your tongue from evil and your lips from speaking deceit. Turn away from evil and do good; seek peace and pursue it.

Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
His mouth is filled with cursing and deceit and oppression; under his tongue are mischief and iniquity.

Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.

The fear of the Lord is hatred of evil. Pride and arrogance and the way of evil and perverted speech I hate.

Let not your mouth lead you into sin, and do not say before the messenger that it was a mistake. Why should God be angry at your voice and destroy the work of your hands?

Likewise, urge the younger men to be self-controlled. Show yourself in all respects to be a model of good works, and in your teaching show integrity, dignity, and sound speech that cannot be condemned, so that an opponent may be put to shame, having nothing evil to say about us.

“You shall not take the name of the Lord your God in vain, for the Lord will not hold him guiltless who takes his name in vain.




With Love,
Your Savior

Monday, May 20, 2013

Sing with Your Whole Soul!

There are few things in the world more therapeutic, and non-detrimental to your soul, than singing your heart out. Music: high decibel. Lungs: loud and clear; Singing a good song that touches on the right emotional notes and explains your stresses away.

Driving down the freeway today, on my car-ride home, all the right songs lined up for release. I sang them with my whole soul. The notes poured out of my mouth, my worries went with them. My head and my heart let go of any burden and I was free...A reminder from the Lord: Do not let your heart be troubled...
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4 Make a joyful noise unto the LORD, all the earth:
 
make a loud noise, and rejoice, and sing praise
-Psalm 98



Monday, May 13, 2013

Being a mother is...

Relaxing early in the a.m. preparing my mind and soul for what surprises await as my day begins...coffee and bible in hand...until the beasts wake up.
Doing a sink full of dishes every hour, losing my patience over the fact that my kids aren't going to be as OCD as their mother when it comes to the cleanliness of our living quarters, and 16 loads of laundry a week...
Losing my mind on occasion, and laughing deliriously at the chaos until I pass out and get much needed sleep...
Soccer games, baseball games, screaming like a nut from the sidelines, and coming to terms with the fact that I may be vicariously living through my awesome spawn... and enjoying every minute of it :)
Detours for special treats on the weekend, soaking up the sun and splashing around with my crew as they remind me that life is to be enjoyed...
Couples date night on rare occasion, letting my hair down, jumping on stage at the JoKoy show:
and laughing all night with my best people surrounding...





...and learning the most amazing lessons in faith, love, patience, hope, and joy through the childlike faith of my precious babies....being a mother is awesome.

Sunday, May 5, 2013

Monday, April 29, 2013

April in closing...

The concluding weeks in April were fruitful. Here's what went down:



 The entire family caught a series of stomach viruses which *helped some of us on a quest to get skinnier for hotter weather (twisted joke) while landing the smaller folk in the hospital....

                                                           


Razzle Dazzle showed his stuff on the b-ball fields making his Momma scream like a looney with excitement in the outfield (I swore I'd never be that mother...but you turn into a fanatic when your kidz got skillz :)  )


      
Also, each weekend, I am awarded the pleasure of living vicariously through my middle child, Tator, while he slide-tackles and scores like a champ on the soccer fields...totally entertaining (Spartacus is quite the soccer player too, might I add, averaging 3 goals per game :D...I'm not bragging...actually, I AM!!!! BOOOOYAHHHH         I became acquainted with these darling Sisters from a local parish while dining at Jersey Mikes....I was so stoked. It's always nice meeting heavenly celebrities who still adorn themselves in Habits. Peace be with you sisters and thanks for taking a shot with me and blessing my meal.

 Leila Ali (our 5th child-dog) faked a pregnancy by growing large nipples, moping around the house, and whimpering for sympathy from the kids...it worked and she was awarded a spot on the bed for a few nights til' we figured out she was lying.... 
We adopted a new family member which really upset Leila so she decided to let the poor kitten know who was boss upon their introduction...after prying the little kitty out of Leilas mouth, we decided Leila needed some cool-down time outside for a few days....Gypsy (our new kitty) is adapting nicely after her near death experience and we are hoping that Leila and Gyp will become civil in the days to come.


Sparticus is really enjoying his faith formation at church...I hope it's because he is falling in love with Jesus but his behavior suggests that it's more likely because he's enjoying dressing up like Rico Suave every Sunday....

A replica of the Hub
 The Hub is looking finer than ever bulking up for summer and staying focused on his passion for coaching kids. He just returned from an awesome trip with his partners and is fired up about the upcoming season. xoxo Turtle-Bear. Can't wait for stadium days! He has also begun to surprise me with his knack for interior design...after staring at my walls in an over-caffeinated stupor, rearranging furniture to no avail, then finally throwing in the towel because I couldn't get the decor just right, The Hub surprised me by completely re-doing our house while I was catching up on beauty sleep that evening. I discovered that the Husband is a pretty capable/talented creature when I allow him that freedom. Thanks lover :)



In "prep for summer news", The Sister-Ugly and I have taken advantage of the amazing weather, relaxing on the beach and soaking up the sun. We plan to make it a habit every weekend....*high hopes. 

Sny and The Youthful recently visited the Zoo and Sny had a life-changing experience with a pooping goat (see below)...He is recovering now at home with mom and has no plans to visit the zoo again in the near future.





          

In Spirtual news, Sny has begun to dabble in Judaism, sporting his home-made Yamaca last Sunday dinner. I prefer Catholism these days and am growing spiritually in RCIA classes. I love the discipline I am learning and the fellowship with fellow Parishioners who have respect and admonition for our Lord. The Hub and I will soon be receiving our sacraments and having our marriage blessed before the church. I'm ultra excited and eager for penance: much to confess, Lord have mercy!
Plans are beginning to spring for the month of May! More to come....

Saturday, April 13, 2013

Colorful Family Time

My kids are my favorite humans. They keep me on my toes and running wild. We just ended another great Saturday night together. Some non-conventional fun.
This is how we play dress-up


Proud momma



My little Champs, finishing their 1st 5K...they ran the whole race!
 Daddy missed this one, but he will be there for the next! (Mudrun!!! 2014)
San Diego Neon Run 2013

Saturday, April 6, 2013

Drink the Kool-aid.

Okay, a bit of depression set in the other day when I stepped on the scale and realized I had gained more fluff that I was content with. The scale wasn't the first alarm. The stitches in my pants had been crying out long before I stepped on the scale. My 5'3 and 125 lb frame had ballooned to a voluptuous and out of shape 145 lbs and I haven't grown taller... that's the problem. I think some women wear curves very nicely. I have a different sort of build, beedy eyes, smalls lips, ruler frame...needless to say, curves don't look curvy on this bod, I take on more of a pendulous adjective. So, I sat my fluffy ass down and skimmed through Pinterest to get some motivation. Initially, I found a bunch of scrawny chicks with breast implants claiming they were hot...I wasn't impressed. Although the anorexic look may be popular, I'm more into the athletic Sparta Chick kinda look. Here's what inspired me:
Within 20 minutes of eating my icecream, drinking a glass of wine, and looking at my belly compared to these chicks, a Crossfit fire was lit under this fluff. I decided to drink the Kool-aid, once again. You see, I used to do this crazy Crossfit stuff a few years back. It had this wild and untamed side- effect of making me feel like a champ when I was finished.  I miss that. I shall resume these champ-like workouts as a life-style I suppose. I'm not nearly as intense as I used to be so I don't imagine I will be calling myself a "Crossfitter" anytime soon, however I will be stealing the W.O.Ds (Workout of the Day) to get this ass in shape. So, here it goes (holding up my glass of green tea in a "Cheers" fashion). I should note, I have no intention of following the traditional Crossfit Paleo Cave man diet. However, I will be eating to fuel fitness not fluff. 

Beginning Stats: 
Weight: 145lbs
Pant size: 9
Physical Health: moderately fit, tire easily after 1 mile run when compared to my year ago half-marathon running self.
Vices: Wine, sugar, processed crap for snacks.

Desired End Result:
Weight: 125lbs
Pant Size: 7/5
Physical Health: Champion status, running 20 miles a week. Crossfitting/working out 5/7 days a week consistently.
Diet Modifications: No Refined Sugar! 1 glass of wine on weekends :)